Family mode
Matchmaking that honours how India actually works
Most apps ignore the family. We built an entire mode for them — with the right access controls for everyone.
Choose your mode
Four ways to involve your family
Switch anytime. Your private chats always stay private.
Self mode
You manage everything yourself. Family sees nothing. Full independence.
Family-assisted mode
Your family can browse, shortlist, and add notes. You control what they see.
Hidden-from-family mode
Your profile is completely hidden from people you flag as family members.
Joint decision mode
Both you and a parent must approve before an interest is sent. True consensus.
Family portal
A separate interface, built for parents
Simple, clean, and focused — so parents can participate without getting overwhelmed.
Profile viewing
Parents see full profiles including verification badges, photos, and bio.
Shortlist with notes
Mark favourites and add private notes only visible to the family group.
Share with extended family
Share a profile link with relatives — they can view but not contact.
Chat stays private
Parents never see your direct messages. That boundary is technical, not just policy.
How it's secured
Scoped access tokens — not shared passwords
Family access is granted via a time-limited, scoped invitation link. Your family gets a separate read-only portal login. They cannot access your DMs, account settings, or payment information. Access expires automatically after 30 days.
- Separate family portal login
- Read-only access to approved profiles
- Zero access to your messages
- Automatic 30-day expiry
- Revoke access at any time
Family mode questions
Can my family message people on my behalf?
No. Only you can send and receive messages. Your family's access is read-only for profiles and shortlisting.
What if I want to keep it private from my parents?
Use Hidden-from-family mode. Any account you flag as family will not be able to find or view your profile.
Can extended family (aunts, uncles) be added?
Yes. You can invite multiple family members. Each gets their own read-only portal access.
How long does family access last?
30 days per invitation. You can renew or revoke at any time from your settings.
Set up family mode in under 2 minutes
Send an invite link. They create a portal login. You stay in control.